Sexuality
In its chronic state, the Cantharis picture is an individual who is restless in body and mind, irritable to the extreme and with a sexual appetite that seems to be insatiable. In the chronic state, however, we don’t see the delirium and the extreme conditions of sexual frenzy. The patients can be described as lean, wiry, nervous individuals who tend to use obscene and aggressive language at every opportunity. This is an urge that they seem unable to control. Their behaviour to the opposite sex is rude.
Sexual desire is tremendously increased; a restless sexuality drives them on. It seems that the sexual drive takes possession of the whole individual. The patients cannot think about anything but sex. A Cantharis man or woman has no inhibition about suggesting that another person go to bed with them at once, and the desire is not satisfied by only one orgasm; it immediately rises anew. The obscene language is another way to express the sexual urge, and therefore such words are often also used during sexual intercourse. Cantharis is more demanding for sex than even Platina, though, in cases of women with such an excessive sex drive, it is almost always Plat, that is prescribed, sometimes erroneously.
In addition to the constant demand for sexual intercourse with their partner, these people are likely to have extramarital affairs to satisfy their sexual urges. It is interesting that such individuals do not easily resort to masturbation as they need ‘the real thing’ and mainly the contact with the other person. Let us be aware, however, that an increased sexual drive is only a symptom when it is pathological, an urge that makes the patients suffer and restricts their freedom to live out their human potential.
In chronic Cantharis people, and especially in women, there is often a long history of repeated cystitis, which has not been treated correctly, or of gonorrhoea. The recurrent urinary infections may be