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Essence of Materia Medica – page 70

that her husbana has a runny nose. She seems so obsessed by this that she seems to pass off her own problems. You cannot see why such a trivial problem means so much to her, but it does. Little things create an agony for her, a deep despair.
A Dulcamara patient’s husband may have many things on his mind and leaves for work without saying goodbye. She then rum¬inates about this; "I have devoted my whole life to him, cooked for him, kept his clothes cleaned and pressed, and no he doesn’t even take notice of me!" To take another example, after all her exhortations, her son leaves home and marries a woman not of her own choice. She feels unappreciated and falls into deep despair. Finally, she may even have suicidal thoughts. She says to herself, "1 don’t want to live any more."
Considering these complaints,, you have difficulty understand¬ing her upset, so you inquire, "What is the problem? You have a nice family, your husband provides you with a nice home, your son is getting married to someone he loves. What is the trouble?" It is that she feels that they are all ungrateful. She tries to possess them, and they go their own way. This makes her feel—and appear—very "uptight". UPTIGHTNESS is very characteristic of Dulcamara, and you may even discover that this state has gone so far as to produce idiopathic hypertension. Dulcamara is an excellent remedy for high blood pressure in patients of this type.
Once someone leaves her circle of influence, the Dulcamara patient may continue to try to prove that her view was coirect all along. Spitefully, she describes the terrible way her son is treated by his wife; "His wife doesn’t cook for him, doesn’t keep house pro¬perly. He is living in a terrible state!" Not knowing better, you may imagine that, he is living in a hovel. But if you happen tc visit his home, you see immediately how much the patient has exaggerated the situation. You witness a well-kept, happy home, but the patient has picked up on minor faults and blown them out of proportion—merely in order to prove herself right.
The physical picture of Dulcamara, of course, is well described in all the books. Changes of weather from hot to cold brings on diarrhoea, joint pains, or coryza. It sometimes is a valuable remedy in hay fever. A prominent characteristic is the tremendous head¬ache which comes on after a catarrh has been suppressed. It also