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The Celle Seminars_Page 78

George Vithoulkas

Did you see how the husband provokes the situation, how he aggravates the difficulties without understanding what he is doing? We can assume that in some way, subconsciously, he wants his wife to be sick because then she would be unable to engage in an extramarital affair. Do you see the human subconscious mind at work? The patient is unable to find a solution to her problem because of her children and other responsibilities. She feels herself to be too weak to stand on her own feet. Nevertheless, lately she’s been trying to become more independent. You also see that there is virtually no communication between the patient and her husband; he perceives things one way, and she perceives them another. The daughter acts as a go-between. She understands that her mother is the weaker of the two, the one who suffers more, and therefore she tries to support her. In her attempt to understand her mother and the dynamics of her illness, the daughter ends up also assigning her father blame for her mother’s condition. Here you have a situation in which the husband will not really want his wife to get well. It is doubtful whether the husband will ever allow his wife to become healthy without first undergoing treatment himself.
I’ve stressed the husband’s role in the patient’s illness for the following reason: as you take down the symptoms and work out your repertorization, you’ll find that Hyoscyamus is the remedy most indicated in this case. But, as a homeopath, you have to ask yourself, »What real, underlying causes render this patient so weak that she is no longer able to cope with her situation?« Although both the patient and her daughter insist that she is able to >face her situation*, the influence that her husband has over her as well as the dynamics of her marriage—of which she is very much aware—shows that the patient is all but in control of her life. That’s why we see here an individual who is very weak, who can be very easily suppressed. We then go on to an analysis of her character, and now we have to ask ourselves, »What is this woman really like?« Hysteria is a definite component of her character, but apart from that, is she someone who experiences emotions,

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