Books

The Celle Seminars_Page 59

Celle Seminar I, Case 2: Insanity

(G. V): How old is the eldest child, and how old is the youngest child?
(F.P.): The eldest is twenty-five and the youngest is twenty. (G. V): Your husband said that the moment the children did not need you anymore, you started doing social work and other assorted activities. How many years ago was this? (H.): At the end of the seventies.
(G. V.): End of the seventies? That would be ten years ago. The youngest child was ten years old then? (F.P.): Yes.
(G. V.): Why did your husband make the assumption that the children did not need you anymore?
(F.P.): It wasn’t the case that I suddenly departed from the house for the whole day and just left my children alone. All I did was attend perhaps a meeting or a seminar once a week in the evenings.
(D.): For example, my mother was asked to be an honorary officer in the Presbyterial of the church. She worked in the church offices.
(H.): That’s not quite correct. The situation was really that I was asked to stand in for a someone who had prematurely retired from the Presbyterial. I didn’t really want to do it, so I suggested that my wife might be approached and that she might like to be a stand-in.
(G. VJ: You proposed that your wife take the position, and she accepted?
(H.): She initially accepted for a period of six months. (F.P.): After this six months, I found that I really enjoyed making contacts and doing the work. It was nice after being isolated for so many years.
(G.V.): And then your husband started having problems with you?
(H.): No, it was not the pleasure of doing the work that was the problem, but rather that certain things didn’t stay in proportion. Let me put it this way: certain things were overemphasized and they took on different proportions.

59