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George Vithoulkas

Conclusion

I would now like to address some of the questions that I wasn’t able to answer earlier. I was asked to differentiate between Medorrhinum and Lachesis in cases of emotional involvement, emotional infatuations. Since we know that Lachesis is also a passionate remedy with a strong sexual urge, we would like to know how a Lachesis person behaves when he is infatuated or really involved with another person. You see, the predominant element in Lachesis—the element that will be manifested in a relationship—is possessiveness. Lachesis is a possessive remedy, it is a remedy that feels almost immediately in an almost instinctive way that the people he loves belong to him. At the same time, it is a remedy in which we see egotism, selfishness, exaggerated self-importance, and therefore any attempt to take the beloved person away from them cannot be tolerated. While infatuated with their partners, Lachesis will behave very passionately and give of himself completely in a relationship. But because these are warm people with very strong feelings, they cannot discriminate between real occasions for jealousy and the normal everyday contacts their lover might have. He cannot imagine that other people can have a relationship with his cherished person without becoming completely infatuated in the same way. Let’s look at an example: A woman with a Lachesis boyfriend greets another man. The boyfriend would probably think, »The moment their hands touch, there is going to be an exchange of sexual energy. She’s touched him, they’ve made contact! Now they probably want to be alone!« The Lachesis person is convinced that all of his fears and suspicions are absolutely true, and therefore he becomes introverted and tries to control himself. He’ll probably tell himself that he does not have enough evidence to support his suspicions, but nevertheless his doubts will lead him back to the same point again and again. If he sees his lover and another man exchange a hug, he’s convinced they’re having an affair. Usually

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