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George Vithoulkas

(G. V.): Were you still in love with your husband, or were you hurt when he left you? (F.P.): He didn’t leave me, I told him to go. (G. V.): Why, were you very angry? (F.P.): Yes.
(G. V.): How did you feel? Insulted? Hurt? (F.P.)-. Hurt.
(G. V.): Do you still remember that? (F.P.): Yes.
(G. V): Did the stomach problems start after the separation? (F.P.): No, Vve had stomach problems since I was eighteen years old; it has nothing to do with the divorce. Of course, it doesn’t help when you are going through something like divorce. (G. V.): Did the stomach problems get worse then? (F.P.): I can’t remember. Vm quite sure that I had stomach pains at the time.
(G. V.): Can you describe how you reacted when you learned he was seeing another woman? Did you become very angry? Did you attack him? Did you physically hit him? Did you throw things at him and make a big fuss?
(F.P.): No, I didn’t do any shouting, I didn’t throw or break things, no.
(G.V.): What did you do?
(F.P.): I looked after my son and I went looking for a new apartment. I had to build up my life anew.
(G. V.): What happened when you were eighteen years old? Why do you think the stomach pains started? (F.P.): School problems. (G. V.): Why? Were you a bad student?
(F.P.): My father was frequently moved in his job, and so I often had to change schools. (G. V.): Weren’t you a good pupil?
(F.P.): You can’t be a good pupil if you constantly change schools’. (G. V.): But you like traveling, (laughs)
(F.P.): In Germany changing schools is a problem because the different regions have different curricula in their schools.

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