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is why she is projecting all that. The mother responds to her daughter’s projection. The patient says that she worries about her mother, but you sec the kind of worry she has; under Baryta carbonica it says: »Anxiety about others.« What kind of anxiety is that? It is a sweet anxiety, an anxiety that says, »if something happens now I don’t know what to do, how to handle the situation.« This is inside Baryta carbonica because of their inability and lack of self-confidence. This is why she develops anxiety about others. It is a different type of anxiety than that of Sulphur, Arsenicum or Phosphorus.
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(Mother): I am not sure if it is lack of self-confidence or fear about meeting new changes, I’m not sure where that lies. I feel that she is one of the best people that I know, and I am not biased by the fact that she is my daughter. I think she is a very good person, she is always there for me, she is very caring and loving.
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(G.V.): Do you see the emotional connection between the mother and the daughter? There is an emotional connection, there is a kind of social situation in which the family has found itself because of the daughter’s illness. If she gets well, what is going to happen? There may be big upheavals in the family, disturbances, because everybody has found his place now within the context of the illness. What is going to happen? It may be very deep because we touch the remedy very deeply.
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(Mother): I think that people tend to take advantage of that, and I don’t think she knows when to stop. I think that she takes on a lot of responsibilities. I feel that she tells you that she has a fear of responsibilities, but at the same time she takes on all kinds of responsibilities. She is very capable, she doubts herself, but at the same time she is very capable. In better times she feels capable. (F.P.): Yes, when I am not feeling like I have been lately. (Mother): The therapist has said the same thing, that she takes on the responsibilities of the world, and she feels they should be hers. To me she’s always been the shaky, scared little girl, and now that she’s grown up she’s managed to get over that. But now she seems to be going back