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The Celle Seminars_Page 208

George Vithoulkas

This is quite a problem, but I think that my character, my way of being, makes up for it. (G.V.): Because you have a lot of friends?
(M.P.): Yes, I have a lot of friends and they like my way of being, and a lot of girls as well, so I get along with that. (G.V.): What do you mean, you get along with that? (M.P.): I feel disadvantaged the first time I meet a new girl because of my thinness and the things I can’t do; but as soon as I get to know them better, then things become more intimate and okay. I don’t think that my illness has been a big limit, only in the beginning when I get to know someone. (G.V.): Do you have a girlfriend? (M.P.): Yes, she is sitting over there. (G.V.): Are you successful with girls? (M.P.): It’s okay. (G.V.): No problem? (M.P.): No problem, at least no more or less than my friends.

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(G.V.): Do you see my tactics in handling the matter? When you begin to investigate the case you are totally blind as to what is really happening, and you don’t know to what extent he may have been hurt. You have to proceed with a lot of tact and not be too aggressive, because he is very young and may be easily offended. That is why, as you saw, I proceeded very slowly in interrogating this area, precisely because this area is very sensitive. While interrogating you probe into various ideas of possible remedies, hoping to find solid enough confirmation to justify a prescription. The questions you ask must be posed carefully, otherwise you may wind up with so much extraneous information that it is hard to maintain a firm picture of the case in front of you. And if you ignore these sensitive areas completely and only go on your first impression, you’re apt to miss some very important and revealing factors.

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