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The Celle Seminars_Page 24

George Vithoulkas

(F.P.): I might if I watch a soap opera. (G. V.): Otherwise not at all? (F.P.): No.
(G. V.): Do you think that you are an open or a closed person? (F.P.): Fifty-fifty. I’m not a closed person, but I’m not completely an open person either. I keep some things to myself. (G. V.): Do you think that you could keep something from me secret?
(F.P.): Why should I?
(G.V.): Ah, you’ve turned the question back to me. You don’t want to answer it?
(F.P.): I do want something from you, so it is not my intention to keep secrets from you.
(G.V.): That is precisely why you have to tell me how you are feeling inside, your inside structure. I need you to give me insight into the peculiarities of your character. For instance, it would be helpful if you said that you act in a particular way so that others will like you; or that you are a very impulsive person who immediately tells what you are thinking about; or perhaps that you are a very anxious person, concerned about your relatives. Do you see what I am trying to get at? Just whatever is happening inside. (F.P.): I’m a bit of the worrying type. I think I am also a little shy. It could be that I try to hide this sometimes, cover it up. Impulsive? I don’t think that I’m impulsive. I would prefer to be impulsive, I think. I’m not a sad person. I can get on with other people without any trouble. I can be critical. I think that I can be more critical of other people than I am of myself. I try to be an honest person. I would also like to be a generous person, but I don’t know whether I am or not. Perhaps I’ve become too hard, I don’t know. I think that’s all for the moment. (G. V.): You did well. Are you doing well otherwise? Are you happy with the relationships you have right now? (F.P.): Yes.
(G. V.): How is your sex drive?
(P.P.): It’s not very good. I have the feeling that after my operation I changed a lot.

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