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THE BERN SEMINAR-PAGE 109

(G.V.): Is he affectionate, does he express his affection?
(Mother): Yes.
(G.V.): Does he like ice cream very much?
(Mother): We’ve had an iced rice dessert with no sugar in it and he
likes that, the cold and the sweet. He likes frozen yogurt too.
(G.V.): What do you like to do mostly now, to play with other children
or to play with yourself or to read something?
(Child): I like to play with other children.
LIVE
(G.V.): You see the sense of isolation is almost completely gone, and he is really very quickly, speedily recovering. I ask difficult questions and I demand too much – from the information point of view – but still, I’m trying.
VIDEO
(G.V.): Do you have friends now whom you play with?
(Child): Barbara.
(Mother): Barbara’s one, she’s a cherub.
(G.V.): How old is he now?
(Mother): Six and an half.
(G.V.): Does he go to school yet?
(Mother): He’s been going to school for the last four weeks. We went to
school today, just before we came here.
(G.V.): When was the first time he went to school, was it this year?
(Mother): No, he’s been going for two years already, nursery.
(G.V.): Does he know how to read?
(Child): Sort of.
(Mother): Yes, he’s learning, doing pretty good.
(G.V): Do you feel shy now that we are talking? You feel comfortable?
Good.
LIVE
(G.V.): You see how life is coming back? I asked to see the child about twenty days later, and this encounter is what you’re about to see now. What happened was that John was eating with his mother, and I asked Jim to film him while he wasn’t aware that he was being filmed. You will see the first spot in the whole interview – which is really not an interview – that will give you a clue as to how John feels when he is off camera. This is important because once John is on camera he becomes very serious again.