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(G.V.): Especially upset? (Mother): Yes.
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(G.V.): It is not the answer I am expecting; what I am really asking is whether she was very upset and fought with John’s father. The answer I am expecting is that last month she had a fight with her husband and John was there and he was involved, etc., but she tells me something different.
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(Mother): …and wanting to clarify, for his father and I to define our
relationship, so that it would be clearer for me, and then for John, and
that we could live our lives according to some truth rather than it being
sort of fuzzy and Harry comes in and out of our lives. We function as a
couple a lot of times, but there is so much unsaid between us that it
leaves everything unresolved all the time, and I want it resolved, I want
it changed; so I’ve brought that to Harry’s attention, and he doesn’t like
it.
(G. V.): And what you say is already a known thing for John?
(Mother): A known thing?
(G.V.): Yes, what you have said so far.
(Mother): I think so.
(G. V.): He knows already.
(Mother): I think so, yes.
(G. V.): And he is very attached to you?
(Mother): Yes, and he is very attached to Harry, his father, very
attached. We are both very close to him, very special to him, and he to
us. We live in operating terms of »we« – as a unit – except not all the
time.
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(G.V.): You see, the child is lost in grief; he hears things and then he is completely overwhelmed by grief. Do you see that? What would you call that grief? You call it silent grief, this is a silent grief we are talking about: John will not talk, will not say anything, when he is upset he will not express it, this is the state he goes into. The paralysis is secondary, it doesn’t matter once you find the right remedy what the pathology is. This is the idea behind homeopathy: you have to get to the crux of the matter and pre-